Let’s debunk the myth that only unattractive people or people who are desperate attend speed dating events. That’s the furthest thing from the truth! There’s a lie being whispered into the ears of Christians, forcing them to devalue themselves and others and make decisions based solely off of superficial credentials. Because most people consider “Instagram girls” or social media influencers attractive. And while a lot of them have spouses or are in a relationship, the truth is that behind the scenes, those people are on dating apps and attending events like these! The truth about speed dating events? People attend them because they’ve exhausted all options — and not out of desperation. We know dating apps are a shot in the dark, and most churches have a severe lack of young adults and men. So, people come to these events because they’ve tried everything else, just like you. People come to these events, hard working people. People with jobs, people with responsibilities, people who take their relationship with Jesus seriously. People attend these events, just like you.