The Matchmaking Process—take a step with us.
Our matchmaking process is a path designed to be prayerful, intentional, and personalized. Each step ensures that every introduction is rooted in alignment—not convenience.
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Step 1: Join the Free Database
All clients begin by joining our confidential Christian singles database. This allows us to understand your background, faith, and relationship goals.
Joining the database does not require payment and does not guarantee matches. It simply opens the door to deeper consideration.
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Step 2: Application and Intake
Clients interested in matchmaking services complete a detailed intake process, which includes:
Personal background
Faith beliefs
Lifestyle habits
Relationship history
Preferences and dealbreakers
This step helps us assess readiness, alignment, and eligibility for matchmaking services.
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Step 3: Interview & Discernment
Selected clients participate in a one-on-one interview designed to gain deeper insight into:
Emotional readiness
Spiritual alignment
Communication style
Relationship goals
This step is prayerfully approached and helps determine the best matchmaking path forward.
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Step 4: Matching & Vetting
Based on your tier of service, we begin the matchmaking process, which may include:
Internal database searches
Community referrals
Active recruiting (for concierge clients)
Vetting appropriate to your package level
Every potential match is reviewed for compatibility, values, and alignment before any introduction is considered.
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Step 5:
When a potential match is identified, both parties are presented with a curated introduction. No personal information is shared without consent.
Introductions are intentional—not rushed—and both individuals have the opportunity to accept or decline respectfully.
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Step 6: Dates & Feedback (plus support)
After each date:
Clients provide structured feedback
The process is refined
Adjustments are made as needed
This feedback loop ensures that each subsequent match becomes more aligned and thoughtful.
Coaching & Support
Depending on your tier, you may receive:
Dating coaching
Pastoral counseling
Prayer support
Guidance navigating communication, boundaries, and discernment
Matchmaking is not just about introductions—it’s about growth.
Progression or Completion
As relationships develop, we continue to provide support and guidance. Some clients find a match quickly; others take more time. The process honors individual pacing while maintaining intentionality.
Our role is to guide, support, and steward each connection with care.