The Journey
How the Process Works
Our process is designed to be thorough, intentional, and deeply respectful of your time and heart. Select your path below.
Fill out our male inquiry form to express your interest. Once received, our team will reach out to schedule your complimentary consultation — a no-obligation conversation to learn more about you and what you're looking for.
Free Consultation IncludedOnce you decide to move forward, you'll complete enrollment and undergo a background check. This step protects every woman in our program and reflects our commitment to a safe, trustworthy process.
$90 Background Check FeeOur team works with you to build a curated matchmaking profile that captures who you are — your faith, your personality, your goals, and what you're looking for in a partner.
$50 Profile FeeHoly Nation Matchmaking actively searches our database and network to find women who align with your criteria and values. This is a done-for-you service — we do the work so you don't have to scroll endlessly through profiles.
$300 Search Phase FeeWe present you with vetted Candidates for your review. You select your top three to advance into the Dating Phase. This is entirely your decision — we simply curate the options.
The Dating Phase includes matchmaker-facilitated video introductions, structured speed dating events, scheduled weekly communication periods with your Candidates, and a final selection process. Every step is guided and supported.
$300 Dating Phase FeeApproximately one month after the active process concludes, we'll follow up with a complimentary check-in. We genuinely care about how things are going beyond the matchmaking process itself.
ComplimentaryGetting started costs you nothing. Fill out our database form and your profile will be on file. When a male client enters the process whose criteria aligns with you, you'll be invited in. There's no obligation and no upfront cost.
Completely Free to JoinIf invited, you'll attend a group introductory meeting where the Male Candidate is introduced to potential female participants. After this meeting, you'll decide whether you'd like to continue in the process.
$25 Participation FeeOur team conducts an individual vetting process to understand your preferences, personal goals, and compatibility with the Male Candidate's criteria. You'll also submit photos for your profile and undergo a background check.
$90 Background Check · $60 Profile FeeHoly Nation Matchmaking reviews all participants and selects the strongest Candidates to present to the Male Candidate. Pre-selection is at HNM's discretion and does not guarantee advancement — but we always handle this process with care and respect.
Your profile is shared with the Male Candidate. He makes his selection. If chosen, you'll advance to the Dating Phase. If not selected, you may be eligible for a complimentary speed dating event and a 50% discount on future enrollment.
If selected, you'll enter the Dating Phase — which includes matchmaker-facilitated video introductions, structured speed dating events, scheduled weekly communication periods, check-in reports, and a final selection event.
$215 Dating Phase FeeApproximately one month after the process concludes, we'll follow up with a complimentary check-in. We care about your heart and your journey beyond the matchmaking process itself.
ComplimentaryInvestment
Clear, Transparent Pricing
We believe in honesty at every step. Here's exactly what each path costs — broken down by phase so there are no surprises.
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Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you want to know before taking the next step.
Yes. Holy Nation Matchmaking is rooted in Christian values and operates in accordance with our Statement of Faith. All participants are expected to conduct themselves consistently with Biblical relationship standards throughout the process. This is a ministry, not just a service.
Everything. Dating apps put the burden on you — endless swiping, unvetted strangers, and no accountability. Holy Nation Matchmaking is done-for-you and people-centered. Every participant is vetted, every introduction is intentional, and you have a real human team supporting the process. We do the work; you show up ready to connect.
We don't — and we'll never pretend otherwise. Matchmaking is a deeply human process, and no service can guarantee a relationship outcome. What we do guarantee is our best, good-faith effort to make thoughtful, curated introductions based on your values and criteria. The rest is in God's hands.
Absolutely. Joining the database costs nothing and puts your profile on file. When a male client enters the process whose criteria aligns with yours, you'll be invited to participate. The earlier you join, the better your position when a match becomes available.
Not being selected doesn't mean anything is wrong with you — it simply means the fit wasn't right for this particular process. Women who are not selected may be eligible for a complimentary HNM speed dating event and a 50% discount on preliminary charges if they choose to re-enroll in a future matchmaking process.
Because fees are tied to real work performed at each phase, most fees are non-refundable once a phase has commenced. Background check fees are non-refundable under all circumstances. Limited discretionary refund consideration may be available in documented extraordinary situations such as a medical emergency. Full details are outlined in your participation agreement.
Yes. Confidentiality is taken seriously at every stage. Your profile materials, photos, and personal information are shared only as necessary within the matchmaking process and are never distributed, screenshotted, or reposted without your consent. All participants are bound by the same confidentiality standards.
The consultation is a no-pressure conversation with our team to help us understand who you are, what you're looking for, and whether our program is the right fit for you. There's no obligation. If you decide to move forward, we'll walk you through next steps together.